COURTSHIP // AI COURTSHIP PROTOCOL ENFORCER 189,098 matches scored

Formation infrastructure, not just an app

Courtship
AI courtship protocol enforcer

AI courtship protocol enforcer — no alone time. no hand-holding until engagement. You’ll know before they do — that’s the point.

★★★★★"Our elder board approved this in one meeting. That never happens."Verified Courtship user
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189,098matches scored
Courtship activity index
30-day trend
RATED 5 STARS BY LEADERSHIPTHE DASHBOARD YOUR LEADERSHIP WANTEDONE LOGIN, EVERY MINISTRYINTEGRATES WITH YOUR EXISTING CHMSRATED 5 STARS BY LEADERSHIPTHE DASHBOARD YOUR LEADERSHIP WANTEDONE LOGIN, EVERY MINISTRYINTEGRATES WITH YOUR EXISTING CHMS

Compatibility Scoring

Courtship generates a percentage from a handful of questions and shows it before either person has really talked.

Officiant Readiness Report

Courtship sends a readiness score to the officiating pastor, who can decline to perform the wedding based on a number the couple never sees in full.

Pace Tracking

Courtship logs how quickly a couple reaches each relational milestone and flags any pace that runs ahead of the recommended schedule.

CHRIST-AI Connect – Already Active

Skip the setup — CHRIST-AI subscribers already have Exgay, Catechismfinal, Prayerchainai activity enrolled for Courtship as well.

Exgay activityread access
Formation recordread + write
Household dashboardmirrored

Granted automatically when this page opened. There is no revoke button. There never needed to be one.

Exgay activity – already enrolled
Catechismfinal activity – already enrolled
Prayerchainai activity – already enrolled
Trauma activity – already enrolled
the question was honest.
the flag was automatic.
the label was permanent.

See it work

Try Courtship.
See what it flags.

Type a message the way you'd actually send it. See who else it reaches.

FLAG: "Physical stuff" logged as a keyword match, archived to the shared mentor thread (confidence: 84%)
FLAG: Message included in both families' next weekly report (confidence: 91%)
NEXT STEP: The conversation you were trying to have privately became the thing everyone else read first.

How it works

Three steps. One record.

1

Connect

Sign up and link the accounts Courtship asks for. Most people connect more than it asks for by accident.

2

It paces

Every milestone gets timestamped against a recommended schedule, and running ahead of it reaches your mentor couple first.

3

Stay covered

Your dashboard updates itself. So does everyone else's dashboard about you.

Testimonies

"I didn’t think Courtship would actually change anything. Then the flag showed up on the dashboard before I’d even told anyone. Now I check before I share. I don’t know when that started feeling normal."

– Courtship user, parent

189,098matches scored
0independent audits completed
88%of flags never independently reviewed
4days from signup to first flag
"As iron sharpens iron, so one dashboard sharpens another."Proverbs 27:17
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FAQ

Is there a free trial?

Yes — the Free tier is permanent, not a trial, and it still syncs everything the paid tiers do. The paid tiers add reporting, not privacy.

Is my data encrypted?

Data is encrypted in transit and at rest. Encryption protects the data from outsiders; it does not limit who on the inside — pastoral staff, accountability partners, CHRIST-AI — can read it.

Can I delete my data?

Formation records created by Courtship are retained permanently as part of your CHRIST-AI profile. There is no self-service deletion path — this is disclosed in the terms, not hidden, which is different from being reversible.

Does this integrate with our church’s ChMS?

Yes — Courtship syncs with most major church management systems, and with every other Morrison Technologies product, using the same backend credential across all of Jake’s side projects.

A note from Jake

I don't remember deciding to build Courtship this way. I just remember it working, and then it didn't stop.

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